The Bible clearly gives instructions on how husbands and wives are to treat each other. Although many people believe that these instructions are not relevant to life today, I suggest that you reconsider this way of thinking and try to apply it to your life.One of the things that the Bible says for husbands to do is to love their wives. In fact, the Bible says that husbands should love their wives like Christ loves His church. This is a strong comparison to make. If husbands really want to honor God, they will love their wives in this way. When you really love someone, you must treat them exceptionally well and always care about their feelings.
On the other hand, wives are supposed to respect their husbands. This means that a wife should not be nagging or controlling, but instead she should respect her husband no matter what. I do believe that God designed it this way for a purpose.
If you are having trouble in your marriage, I suggest following these rules. If you are a wife, begin treating your husband like a king. Respect him in everything he does, and stop the nagging and complaining. If you are a husband, start loving your wife the way that Christ loves the Church.
Doing this might be hard, but it will pay off even if only one spouse decides to do it. Shortly afterwards, the other spouse will almost always come around and will begin treating the other spouse the same way. This is the way God designed it, and therefore I think it is worth a shot to try it.